How To Turn Anxiety Into Charisma

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After watching an interview on Jimmy Fallon where Sophie Turner comes across as very charismatic, I started looking into doing a breakdown on her. I was surprised to find that she actually says she struggles in social situations.
On the second watch through, I noticed that hints of nervousness were present in that first Jimmy Fallon interview. So in this video, we’re going to learn what it seems Sophie has learned: how to turn anxiety, shyness, and nervousness into charisma.

4:34 - Strategy #1: Active listening
4:50 - Strategy #2: Mirroring
6:00 - Strategy #3: Elaborate on someone else’s idea
6:31 - Strategy #4: Make fun of your own shyness
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Charisma on Command
Charisma on Command 4 महीने पहले
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Connor Ramone
Connor Ramone महीने पहले
Baffulnish can even crosh over into shynesh
vitral es montaña
vitral es montaña 2 महीने पहले
"you're an icon" it's BS, nobody is an icon, having icons is what's wrong in today's society
coldflame 3 महीने पहले
@5dope I am your dearest.
Alycia Wilson
Alycia Wilson 6 घंटे पहले
Omg the Justin Bieber thing is still one of the funniest things I have ever seen somebody do when meeting someone.
Haluk L. Aka
Haluk L. Aka 17 घंटे पहले
"Sophie has no poker face and is probably a bad liar" :) That chick is an actress, you do realize that right?
Calypso King
Calypso King 23 घंटे पहले
sophie turner is so cute ohmygod
III II III I 23 घंटे पहले
Idk how well mirroring will go.
Julia दिन पहले
i'm a naturally anxious person and this video was definitely helpful but it also had big alien trying to understand human behavior vibes lol
Jack's Anarchy
Jack's Anarchy दिन पहले
You should do a video about all these new Joaquin Phoenix interviews, he shows really good behavioral techniques.
wow717 दिन पहले
inès κ
inès κ दिन पहले
i think i already do most of these.... does that mean..... i may actually have some charisma?
Julala दिन पहले
But she isn't trying to be charismatic she just IS.
Youtube User
Youtube User 2 दिन पहले
I watch this whole video.. but can someone wrap this up?
Sofia 2 दिन पहले
You should also do Jennifer Lawrence!
Chicken Lurkin' Yung Chihuahua
Chicken Lurkin' Yung Chihuahua 2 दिन पहले
Damn my friends know I'm shy under social pressure and they make fun of it. I hate it. All I think about was to end our friendship sometimes.
Youtube User
Youtube User 2 दिन पहले
Chicken Lurkin' Yung Chihuahua same . Ruins my day
Girl With The Plumbob Tattoo
Girl With The Plumbob Tattoo 2 दिन पहले
I wonder how many sociopaths watch this channel to know how to act 😅
Saylin yinyang
Saylin yinyang 2 दिन पहले
Too many ted talks about anxiety gave me this recommendation hahahaha
that person
that person 2 दिन पहले
Wow IN-vid really calling me tf out by recommending this, huh?
juno_p 2 दिन पहले
5:15 kylie jenner joined the chat
Celeste 3 दिन पहले
I really love Sophie. She is so charismatic and sweet, and she's an amazing actress. She is also SO gorgeous. I'll watch anything with her in it.
Laura Vigupe
Laura Vigupe 3 दिन पहले
i think this would only work with attractive people
Carol Waguih
Carol Waguih 3 दिन पहले
I don t like that he s comparing her to other celebreties
DeDe Coco
DeDe Coco 3 दिन पहले
How to turn anxiety into charisma? Be exceptionally beautiful.
LaBonneSalope 3 दिन पहले
Omg it me
poe dam
poe dam 3 दिन पहले
wow she really does like like boy george
turbulentbeauty 4 दिन पहले
Honestly I use a lot of these methods! People who don't know me well assume I'm very extroverted but I just have different tricks that help me. Probably 5 years ago is when I first decided to lean into my awkwardness and laugh at my social blunders. If I started to feel flustered I would purposefully be even weirder (think Aubrey Plaza) or say something snarky but obviously a joke. It would break the ice and I'd then have much less anxiety. I still get flustered sometimes but overall I'm much better socially.
Claire Mamo
Claire Mamo 4 दिन पहले
It’s cute how the narrator says: That bashfulnesh can crosh over into shy-fulness at 2:18 💕
Hobii 4 दिन पहले
I love her
Hermès Alcazar
Hermès Alcazar 5 दिन पहले
This does not work if your not thin, have asymmetrical face and idealized. Get it? This works if you're highly attractive. Do not expect to get this response if you lack in the attractiveness department.
Little Moth Big Wings
Little Moth Big Wings 5 दिन पहले
I love Sophie and she is a great inspiration to me, specially after this video, but honestly is already hard to like myself, I don't really want to try to be social so ppl can like me. Maybe some day, but not now. But I loved the video!!
wn 1906
wn 1906 5 दिन पहले
But I'm not funny
llahmitswr 5 दिन पहले
I think of Lana Del Rey watching this. Awkward. Anxious.
Mariachi Ingles
Mariachi Ingles 5 दिन पहले
She's not particularly charismatic, and she doesn't need to be. People like her because she's gorgeous.
nefarious 5 दिन पहले
Counsellor: yeah uh dude you got severe anxiety Me, frantically rolling dice: _CHARISMA CHECK_
Geneva Frans
Geneva Frans 5 दिन पहले
I feel all Pisces are like this... stay strong guys
A M 6 दिन पहले
Cesar Ruiz
Cesar Ruiz 6 दिन पहले
This is me
Lilique Jael
Lilique Jael 8 दिन पहले
Jodie 9 दिन पहले
Defo do Summer Walker
Abir Amezzane
Abir Amezzane 9 दिन पहले
"absolute icon" lol ok
Leigh Mendoza
Leigh Mendoza 9 दिन पहले
I do all of this naturally lol but I'm not likeable enough
Holly Sumner
Holly Sumner 10 दिन पहले
light quin
light quin 11 दिन पहले
So this is why my friends said that i have the charisma meanwhile i always nervous anxious and trembling and even my hands turn cold when doing presention or performing pft
Ariel Rose
Ariel Rose 11 दिन पहले
What a great video! Thanks :D
Ashna Ashna
Ashna Ashna 11 दिन पहले
Do for mila Kunis.she so kind and funny
Vess Beckham
Vess Beckham 11 दिन पहले
Sleeping Cinderella
Sleeping Cinderella 12 दिन पहले
she's pretty, cute, nice, funny and smart. + she's a celebrity, don't lie to regular people who aren't like that and don't give them a false hope
Yay Yay
Yay Yay 12 दिन पहले
I tried to do that and it was working till P.E class when I did sit ups and and person holding my heard me fart..
dylan foley
dylan foley 14 दिन पहले
Brooke S
Brooke S 14 दिन पहले
I feel like I do these things! Yay!
Roberta H
Roberta H 14 दिन पहले
She’s the most charismatic person ever, this gives me hope lol
koko kobe
koko kobe 14 दिन पहले
Can we get a rip for Sophie?
vince 14 दिन पहले
More I watch videos of this channel, more I say.. wtf.. am I a sociopath or an alien ?
Tessa Divine
Tessa Divine 15 दिन पहले
This really helped
Johji Uehara
Johji Uehara 15 दिन पहले
start doing this ? pointing to chin ? wtf is that
La Serpenta Canta
La Serpenta Canta 16 दिन पहले
she is not charismatic at all.
Jirah 18 दिन पहले
I really needed this
Denniz H
Denniz H 18 दिन पहले
Besides all of this: Be hot.
KonstantinGeist 20 दिन पहले
>when people do the opposite, never revealing too much, we struggle to feel at ease, wondering if they're secretly judging us And in another video on confidence with Jon Hamm you claimed that Jon Hamm's confidence rests on non-reacting under pressure which makes him a great influencer. I feel like there's some kind of contradiction.
Godsend Djoker
Godsend Djoker 20 दिन पहले
i dont know why im watching this. i Only wanted to know how this charisma works on girls😂
0urMutualFriend 22 दिन पहले
Lol I see videos like this or the one about mirroring body language to create rapport, and I feel guilty even considering using these cos in my head it'd feel like I'm using weird robot techniques to foster human relationships
Sabrina Mitchell
Sabrina Mitchell 24 दिन पहले
I love this video. I relate alot to Sophie, people think im actually really freindly and bubbly but in actuality, its just anxiety. But sometimes I overshare or overkill things so these videos are great and learning how to work my strengths❤❤
the best of: Sophie & Joe
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the best of: Sophie Turner (II)